The little things that matters

Stumbled upon this picture when i was looking through facebook.
Its from Zhenming's wall :)

But the point is, this poster is really true.

How many times have we used the two words "Just Kidding" just to try to escape from something we have said and realised that we should not have said anything...
And we often say the truth even if we may be "Just Kidding"

And then the 3 words, "I Don't Know".
Another great example.
Ask yourselves, how many time did you say "I don't Know" just to avoid answering a question.
In the case of the teenagers nowadays, people use "I Don't Know" to shy away from the question: "YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND/ BOYFRIEND RIGHT?" when you could have just given a solid answer.
Or for the adults, if your boss ask you to do something that you don't wanna do, you'll try to shake it off, by saying "O That? I DON'T KNOW how to do that!"
But the truth behind it is that you actually know how to do the job.

How about the "I Don't Care"?
Lets just talk about Love and Family.
In love, when either side goes, "I Don't Care about you anymore!!", more often then not, they will regret and feel guilty for saying that to the opposite side.
And many couples forget the little bit of emotion behind that "I Don't Care" is what brought them together in the first place.
And for families, even if your parents go "I don't care about you anymore!!", they actually still do.
Even if its the slightest bit, they still do care.
More importantly, they are the ones who will flock to your side in the quickest time when you need help...

And then there is "It's ok"
So think anyone in a relationship which just fell apart will not feel the hurt?
They'll go "It's okay." or "I'll get over it soon", but deep down in the heart, they are screaming in pain, asking why did it have to go that way.
How about finding out that people have been gossiping about you behind your back...
Sure you'll go " It's ok", but u'll go home in pain, asking yourself, "Why are people doing that?"
And maybe you're someone who gets bullied everyday, and your true friends come around to try to comfort you. But you go "It's ok", and then deep down you ask yourself... "Am i really okay?"

All this little things are what that really matters in life, what that makes Human what we are.
And remember, the usual "Just kidding, I Don't Know, I don't care, It's okay"...
It could mean more then what it really seems...
And this is life...

This poster really taught me something though...
We must never take anything for granted...
Because some times, it might just be too late to go "Just kidding, I Don't Know, I don't care, It's okay".
Learn to cherish life, because you'll never get a second chance in living it over.

So everyone out there, cherish life and everything that you have before you, because you can only learn from your mistake, you can never go back and try to undo what is already done.
Learn from your mistakes, and more importantly, move on.
I'm sure there's always a better tomorrow :)